Sexy suggestions for two...
Remember Girl 6...that Spike Lee joint a while back??? Well, the movie wasn't all that memorable, but it dealt with something that I've come to really love. Phone sex.
No, I'm not one of those over-sexed females dressed in lace, whispering naughty things to pre-pubescent horny males. Phone sex is something that I share with someone that I care about, and it goes beyond the typical: "Yo baby, what'cha got on?"
It was introduced to me a few years ago, and I was completely shy and nervous about doing it. My boyfriend at the time was so into it, and I almost thought that he did it on the side. But as time went by, I realized that phone sex was essential, especially on the moments when we weren't near one another.
Phone sex is not simply dirty talk; it is connecting with someone on an emotional level and trying to please them with your thoughts and fantasies.
It is just as enjoyable for the person speaking as it is for the person listening. (I prefer listening but I am so down for getting a little freaky too!) My man was able to satisfy my every need with his words rather than his…well...you know.
I know that nothing beats the real thing, but if your relationship needs a little flava, put on your best sexy voice, call your man up and whisper some freaky things so that he'll be at your place before you hang up the phone. ¤ Michelle
If you haven't already taken a bath with the one you're with, then grab a bottle of bubbly and take the plunge. It's passionate, relaxing, and a great time to catch up on the day's events. It's also a great prelude to whatever you have planned next for your romantic evening.
I'm not opposed to showering with that special someone, but I'm the type of person that has a particular routine that has been highly tailored to my showering needs. It's not a good showering experience for me when my routine is disrupted.
But baths. Now that's a whole new world. Shut off all the lights, line the bathroom with candles, open a bottle of champagne (add some chocolate-dipped strawberries if you're so inclined), and grab some really yummy smelling bath beads. Throw in some rose petals for extra effect. Once you're in the tub, let the hot water run in a trickle, but be careful not to overflow the tub.
The hardest part of taking this bath will be tearing yourselves away from such a sexy setting. ¤ C.Ho.
For special occasions, we usually expect our boyfriends to make the plans and romance us. And, sometimes they're just clueless as to what we do want. So, flip the decision-making and surprise your boyfriend. He'll be relieved from the pressure and appreciate all your hard work.
For my anniversary, I decided to make the plans. We didn't have a traditional fancy dinner, but just a whole day out spending time with each other. We went to downtown Toronto to the Bata Shoe Museum. Okay, this was kind of for me (I always wanted to go there and my boyfriend said he'd check it out with me). After that we went down to Simcoe and Front to get on to the Hippo Tours that took us on a ride around Toronto and onto the lake. It happened to be only the two of us on the ride, so we had the bus all to ourselves. After that we finally had dinner at a restaurant on the Danforth for some really good Greek food. It was fun-filled day and my boyfriend was a happy camper.
So, I recommend throwing some surprises for your boyfriend. It'll be something he'll always remember and it might help him out when it's his turn again. ¤ Phan