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Dear Angry Black Grrl:

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Sleazy friends, lonely break-ups, drunken confessions, bad boyfriends...

GOT A QUESTION? The stresses of life getting you down? Can't understand what he sees in her? If you have a relating question for Angry Black Grrl, send her an e-mail help AT happygrrls DOT com. Don't let the name fool you - although she may sound angry, she's actually as gentle as a newborn kitten. ADVICE OF THE MONTH On oral sex: If your man is a little nervous, you may need to coach him on what you want done. Let him know how it makes you feel. Once he performs it on you and hears you moaning in his ear, HE will be begging for more.

Dear Angry Black Grrl,
I've been friends with this girl for many years. Throughout the friendship, she has managed to hit on every single man I've shown interest in. Besides that, she's a pretty good friend. What should I do?
Leave My Man Alone

Pretty good friend? Hmm, seems like homegirl wants to get friendly with all your men.

If you want to be nice about it (and that's not my first choice), tell her that you don't appreciate it when she gets all hot and sweaty with all the men you are interested in. If she doesn't like that, blow her ass off because she ain't acting like a friend of yours anyway.

Dear Angry Black Grrl,
I recently broke up with my boyfriend of two years. The thought of being on my own again scares me. How do I get over this?
H.C.

Girlfriend, you need to be a little more like Béyonce and start singing "Independent Woman." True, having a man to kick it with is tha bomb, but you can't make him your whole life. If you have a career goal - pursue it. If you want to go to school - then do it.

Don't worry, there are plenty of men out there.

Dear Angry Black Grrl,
I got very drunk one night and hit on my female friend. I've always been attracted to her, but as far as she knows I'm straight (although I've dated both men and women before). I don't really remember much of that night, but now she's acting very distant towards me. I want us to go back to the way we were. Help!
A.T.

You know what they say liquor makes you do - speak the truth. Sorry girl, it looks like you inadvertently let your friend in on your secret desire. Judging from her reaction, she ain't down for your love. You may want to admit your feelings and unfortunately suffer the consequence. There is a possibility that she may not feel comfortable being your friend anymore. Good luck!

Dear Angry Black Grrl,
My man doesn't believe in oral sex. How do I get him to change his tune?
Frustrated in Bed

There's a freak in da house, y'all!! I'm playin'. I feel your pain, cuz my man satisfies my ass every time!!

If your man is a little nervous, you may need to coach him on what you want done. Let him know how it makes you feel. Once he performs it on you and hears you moaning in his ear, HE will be begging for more. ¤ Michelle