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Dear Angry Black Grrl:

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Lazy bosses, porn addictions, January/December romances...

HAVE A DILEMMA? Not sure if you should rethink your friendship? Looking for a reason, any reason, to not put a stapler in your eye at work? If you have a relating question for Angry Black Grrl, send her an e-mail at help AT happygrrls DOT com. Don't worry, she's as gentle as a newborn kitten. ADVICE OF THE MONTH On watching porn: I know that you said that you don't dig it, but it might spice up your sex life. Don't be too repulsed by porn, most guys watch it because it's a harmless way to satisfy their raging hormones.

Dear Angry Black Grrl,
My supervisor at work is always asking me to do things that are not in my job description. I do them anyway, but it really bugs me that she's asking me to do these things that others (or herself) are supposed to be doing. Should I say something about it?
Angry At Work

Damn right you should say something. Who is she to make you her personal slave? The next time that she wants you to do something that is clearly not in your job description, tell her what your duties entail, and anything other than that is HER responsibility. Please note that you may need to look for another job or try to be transferred. 'Cuz, you know that bitch will make your life a living hell. Anyways, good luck!!!

Dear Angry Black Grrl,
The other day I found porn hidden under my boyfriend's bed. Should I keep his secret or call him on it? By the way, I am not a fan of porn or any man that reads it.
No More Porn

Don't underestimate the power of porn. I know that you said that you don't dig it, but I'm sure that once you and your man watch it, it will spice up your sex life. Don't be too repulsed by porn, most guys watch it because it's a harmless way to satisfy their raging hormones. Girlfriend, if you are a little daring like me, set up a camera and create your own movie. Your boo will without a doubt get aroused watching you and him bump and grind on screen.

Dear Angry Black Grrl,
I am in love with my teacher. We've been spending time outside of class together, but nothing's happened yet. I think he feels the same way, but he's scared of the consequences. Besides the fact that he's my teacher, he's also thirty-five and I'm sixteen. He's not the teacher at my normal high school, he's just my summer school teacher. Should I pursue this?
Lolita

Girlfriend, do you want me to start singing "Fiesta"??? Have you even heard of R. Kelly? Not only is it not ethical for y'all to "pursue" the relationship, your teacher can wind up in jail. If it is in fact true love, wait a couple of years - at least until you're legal (18 years old), and then you can pursue your prince charming. ¤ Michelle