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Happygrrls' Sexy Style:
The introduction...
It begins with a glance. Not your ordinary, I-know-that-person's-there type of glance, but a glance that heats up the room. As your eyes meet, you can literally feel the intenseness, your arm hairs standing on end. Even if you wanted to, you wouldn't be able to look away. In that moment, you lose sight of everything but him, and you know in an instant that your night has only begun. Your heart beats just a little more earnestly, your pulse races, and all you can think of are the endless possibilities.That's sexy to us.
It's not about having sex, or even the foreplay leading to sex, but the hint of it, the anticipation. It's what a person says with their eyes, with their smile, the way they "accidentally" brush their arm against your skin. It's in their words, and yet it's what's not in their words. It's silence, it's spontaneous laughter. It's being caught in summer rain, a tiny entrance your only refuge. It's the way someone can laugh at themselves, so comforted by you that they do not have to censor themselves.
Sexy is being confident, being passionate, being straightforward, and being funny. Anyone can be sexy, as long as they have a sexy attitude. We find confident men to be the sexiest of all, not only because they can command a room with their mere presence, but because they don't care at all that they have that power. We find cockiness also attractive, although too much is just a bad thing. A sense of humour is also a top priority, as we find ourselves drawn to people who can make us laugh until we snort Coke through our nose. Some of the sexiest people we've met are not Playboy Playmates or Calvin Klein models, but normal, down-to-earth people who are comfortable with themselves, accept who they are, and live their lives according to their own principles. These people are not afraid to ask for help, are not concerned about what others will think of them, and speak their mind whenever they feel. The media would have us believe that it's the Uma Thurmans, the Nicole Kidmans, and the Julia Roberts that are the sexiest, and although these women are sexy, it's not how you look or what you wear, but how you exert the attitude that makes you sexy.
Read on to find out more about our unique sexy style and what makes us hot for him.
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